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How to reach harmony in marriage?

Step 1 - frankness

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For creation of healthy psychoemotional climate in a family it is important to be open for communication with each other. The spouse with whom share the plans, dreams, impressions feels the importance in life of darling. Straight confidential talks and a sincere praise to darling do the relations between two people deeper and strong.

Step 2 - respect of personal liberty

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The selfish feeling of property can disturb good relations in marriage. But the spouse not the thing also has the right to personal liberty. If everyone in a family has an opportunity to find time for the hobbies, communication with friends and it is possible to stay in case of need alone with himself, then everyone can be confident in what its feelings understand and respect. And it will only strengthen marriage.

The step 3 - not to quarrel on trifles

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Analyzing the majority of family quarrels, it is possible to see that there are they most often for the insignificant reasons. Quite often, having begun with small, the quarrel develops into the real conflict with a showdown. That it not to allow a quarrel it is necessary to stop at its beginning. How to make it? If there are no forces to cope with emotions, then it is the best of all to leave for a while. It will give the chance "to cool down" to both parties.

Step 4 - attention signs

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To do one to assure the spouse of love words, absolutely another – to show the love in practice. For this purpose it is not obligatory to make loud feats. It is enough to render each other daily signs of attention. Tender words, warm views, embraces and gentle touches will tell the person loved by you incommensurably it is more, than you can imagine. These signs of attention will make you closer and physically and spiritually.

Step 5 - intimate relations

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You do not avoid this important issue of matrimonial life. Healthy intimate relations are very important for strong marriage. Do not neglect them and do not use them as means of pressure upon the partner in life. This sphere in the relations between the husband and the wife has to bring joy to both spouses. Quite often the most serious conflicts in a family happen because of intimate relations.

6 - be able to listen to a step

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When we speak, to us it is important that us not only listened, but also understood. It would be good if we also acted this way when our spouse shares the experiences. You should not concentrate only on yourself and the emotions, to be prejudiced and to consider the position exclusively correct. Try to look at a situation eyes of your spouse and perhaps you will understand better how to settle it.

Step 7 - surprise each other

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Many admit that the boredom kills the relations. Do not wait for emergence of alarming symptoms, do not give yourself and the spouse to miss. Surprise darling with a pleasant surprise, an unexpected gift, a romantic dinner or something that to it it is expensive. Who better you knows how to give darling joy? Do not wait until make a step towads to you, show an initiative.