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What will help to have strong relations

You appreciate new acquaintances

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One wise man told that in our life there are no accidental people. Everyone who is to us near introduces something valuable in our life: emotions, events, feelings. As a result we gain unique life experience and we form as the personality. Therefore it is worth being attentive and to give chance to strangers to make our life richer. To each person is what to share and perhaps we lack it for entire happiness!

Be benevolent

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Today kindness becomes an unusual occurrence. Bystry rate of life, load and stresses do not allow to show warm sincere qualities. On such background of people, belonging to others it is benevolent, by all means will draw attention to itself. Show respect for people and kindness just because you the good person. Such relation by all means will cause reciprocity in people. Also remember: do not try to change others – change!

Be able to release people

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People can not only appear in our life, but also disappear from it. When there comes such moment, it is important to release the person, having kept about it only good memories. If not to make it, then because of the destroyed bonds and lack of the relations in communication with it negative emotions will begin to prevail. It is impossible to hold violently the person nearby and at the same time to remain happy. So why to doom to sufferings of and others?

Down with perfectionism!

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It is necessary to aim at perfection, but to lead up it to the point of absurdity wrong. Do not try to be ideal and do not demand it from others. Uniqueness your and whose that was persons consists in total your merits and demerits. You would stop being yourself, trying to squeeze into an ideal framework. Happens so that "shortcomings" look even lovely and touching and, in fact, are character "highlight".

Positive circle of contacts

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To be a happy person, it is necessary to surround itself with happy people! Create the circle of contacts from those who have qualities necessary to you – you will be able to study and develop at them these qualities in yourself. The people filled with a positive I will make your life brighter and nasyshchenny, they on own example will show you as the world is beautiful around and will be able to load you with the energy. And you steer clear of pessimists.

Support others

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In the real relations support which is especially important in circumstances, difficult for the person, is most of all appreciated. Popular wisdom not for nothing says that a friend in need is a friend indeed. Give support to the relatives, be for them a support during difficult moments, and you will see how your relations will get stronger. And when the help and support will be necessary for you, your friends, undoubtedly, will be near you. Also remember, even the kind word can help!

You learn to forgive

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If you do not learn to forgive offenses, then it will be bad first of all to you. You will spend the forces for negative emotions and to hurt heart memoirs. Release from yourself all offenses and concentrate on what good you can make for the people who are near you. Think whether the person who offended you, deserves precious minutes of your life which you spend for hatred to him?

Be able to listen

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Whether it is pleasant to you when listen to you? Sometimes it is enough to dump an emotional burden and to calm down a little. Same wait from you also your friends – abilities to listen. When your relatives want to share with you the thoughts and experiences, do not hurry to give advice and to comment – just listen carefully. In most cases all this that from you is required.

Avoid misunderstanding

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In your relations with people there should not be a misunderstanding. It is possible to avoid it if in return extremely accurately and clearly to formulate thoughts, without forcing the person to conjecture for you and if you not absolutely understood someone, then not to hesitate to ask again instead of to finish thinking about something for him. Also, if you want to have long strong relations, never start up in them a lie, otherwise they quickly enough will collapse.

Take quality, but not quantity

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Happens that the person has many familiar, and true friends is not present. It is better not to be sprayed on many, and to develop the close relations with relatives to you on spirit people. For this purpose it is necessary to have with them common interests, to spend together time and to be near not only minutes of joy, but also then when there are problems. Look narrowly, at those who after the party remained to help you with cleaning, but not just thanked you for a fine holiday!

You keep this word

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Anyone can bring, only not the true friend. Therefore if you made the promise, then do everything possible that to execute it. Do not try to look beautifully and to promise what is not able to be executed – better at once to tell the truth that to you beyond its powers, than afterwards to get out of an unpleasant situation. To keep the word – means, to receive respect in the opinion of people around and in own.

Egoism and friendship are incompatible

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Whether you heard about the bilateral relations? This term can be used not only in policy. In friendship reciprocity when interests of both parties are considered is important too. If you want that you were respected, then and show respect for people, you want love – you love, you wait for devotion – you are loyal in relation to others. Only giving to people what you want to receive, you will be able to find original happiness and the strong relations.

You do not become the judge

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It is simple to condemn other person, especially, if you never were in a similar situation. But there was time when also you were mistaken, and at that moment you wanted to get support, to hear words of a consolation, and at all not to the critic in the address. Who knows that he prepares for us the future, and without having begun to judge perhaps someone today, you will not be condemned tomorrow. Sympathize with people, they already suffer from own mistakes.

Obstinacy to friendship - a hindrance

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Whether you had to argue with friends? If yes, that you know that the desire to win in a dispute is stronger, the worse it is reflected in the friendly relations. Perhaps you are right and you have more reasoned arguments, but trying to prove by all means the case, you endanger your friendship. Can be better to concede and leave for preservation of peace for other person the right to have own opinion, other than yours?

Do not forget about yourself

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Trying to make friends with someone, do not forget about yourself. Consider the interests, strong human relations are under construction on mutual benefit. You will not be able to make happy others, being not happy. How you will be able to give them what you do not have? Respect and love yourself, you appreciate the unique experience and high personal qualities. People at the subconscious level feel sincere kind people and intuitively reach for them.

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