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How to calm the child: 15 ways

Reminder on an important issue

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To postpone cry for some time, and, maybe, and on absolutely, remind the child of an important issue. For example: "The sun, give we at first we will go we will take a walk on the street, and we will cry when we come back home". The fact that you do not prohibit the kid to cry is important here, and just you postpone this moment for a certain time. Many children agree to such concession.

Conscious crying

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Ask the child to cry a little bit more quietly not to wake the father or that at mother the head did not ache. If the child obeys you, then he should do over himself effort, controlling the crying. As a result it to turn into the peculiar game capable to distract attention of the kid from the crying reason.

The passed whim

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Quite often, if not to pay attention to a whim of the child, it will pass by itself, children often "overact", rolling up hysterics to cause responses in adults. Here, however, it is important not to be mistaken and not to show indifference where your care and participation is necessary for the child.

Hasten the child

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When the kid begins to cry, try to distract him words: "Quickly-quickly, ran-ran" until he managed to think up any objection. Though, this reception is efficient only with kids, and children are more senior begin to think that to what.

Zagovorki

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When your kid begins to cry, begin to say much. No matter, what you will tell, here the main thing not to stop, and then the child will gradually forget about the reason of crying and will begin to listen to your words. Minus of this method is that long it is rather difficult to sustain colloquial loading, especially if to try to tell something useful and developing.

Tickling

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If your child is afraid of a tickling, try to tickle him so that he laughed. However this way is ineffective at already played hysterics. Therefore try to catch the moment when the kid just about begins to cry and – act.

Distract the kid

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Try to distract the kid. For example: "Oh, look, you have an eyelash in an eye. Give I it I will pull out, and that she prevents you to cry". Is more senior than the child it is possible to distract something material. For example: "Oh, and who it there in kitchen so rustles loudly? I will go I will look, the hedgehog (a kitty, a mouse, a doggie) can there". Here it is important to come to kitchen of the first and to leave on a table of a toy hedgehog (a mouse, a kitty, a doggie, etc.).

Sound to the kid the crying reason

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Sometimes, that the child stopped crying, it is enough to sound aloud his feelings. For example, tell: "I know why you cry. We could not go out for a walk, and you so wanted it". It is important to child to know that you are not indifferent to his feelings, and often it works as soothing.

Object for emission of emotions

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Find to the kid some object which will help it to get rid of the accumulated emotions. It can be a ball, a cushion, a soft toy, a plate and the hammer. It is important that the subject helped the kid to give vent to the accumulated negative energy.

Think up a ridiculous ritual

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Think up a ritual which will help the kid to forget about crying. For example, it is possible to turn on the hair dryer as soon as your kid is going to begin to cry. Explain it with the fact that you need to dry up his tears. Or it is possible to turn on the vacuum cleaner to clean the kid from whims. However if the kid is afraid of loud noise, then it is better to think up a ritual without use of loud household appliances.

Use sense of humour

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Try to react to crying of the child so: "Oh, who it? монстрик came some and where my wonderful kid got to? Where my kid when he returns?". You remember, however, that between sense of humour and offense very thin side. Try to feel the kid, adapting to his mood and a state.

Uteshalochka

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For children 3-4 years are more senior it is possible to use the following uteshalochka: "Poor you, my unfortunate kid, nobody gives some sweet to you, you have no toy, nobody is on friendly terms with you, you do not walk, the poor thing you my beloved". Quite often this method works when the child understands that feel sorry for him.

Laughter tablets

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Think up laughter tablets, or vitamins from bad mood which give to the kid every time when he begins to cry. This simple method will teach over time the kid to control the emotions. Any tasty dish unavailable in other time can act as tablets (fruit-paste sweets, raisin in chocolate, a dragee, etc.). It is important that the child knew: if medicine does not work, more you will not offer it.

Tell the child as you love him

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Sometimes to calm the child, happens rather strong him to embrace and to tell how strongly you love it. You love even it, with red eyes, the squelching nose, a tear-stained attractive face, aching and capricious. Nothing so quickly dries up children's tears as kindness of parents, their warm embraces and love.

Let's the child cry

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Before beginning to calm the child, it is important to parents to understand that the child has full authority to cry when to it it is sad, it is offended or tired. Even just like that the child has the right to cry, these tears are necessary and important. Therefore in most cases it is necessary nevertheless to allow to the child to have a good cry.